If you are the parents of a child who is always the lowest in the class, or even about to be expelled, do you think your child is hopeless and will fail in the future?Surely many parents answered "yes".
But the character Ma Hao Van (played by actor Dang Sieu) - the father of the Ma Phi boy in the movie "Supplementary class of Ngan Ha" of China trained his stupid son from a student.Poverty was almost expelled to become an excellent astronaut.Does this father have any "magic"?
Ma Hao Van and Ma Phi in the movie "Galactic supplementary class"
In fact, this father has used the following 3 points in the process of educating his child to grow successfully, parents can refer:
1. "Don't just believe what others say. I am the smartest child in this earth"
In the film, Ma Phi is the child with the worst score in the class, the teacher said: "There is no heat to heat up," the mother also said: "The child like this can only sell cakes infuture".
When everyone thought that Ma Phi was destined to be a bad boy and a loser, only his father always praised and encouraged, seeing all his progress.From there, helping the child realize the meaning of "I will never lose", love and study hard to study.
Facing the son Ma Phi did not know where to grow up, the father Ma Hao Van said: Life is like an archery, the dream is Phi Tieu, if even Phi Tieu can not find, then then thenWhat does children mean every day?
"Don't just believe what others say. I am the smartest child in this earth. As long as my mind is constantly thinking, I can do everything on this earth.", he said.
Everyone has dreams, but there are people because of the difficulty backing down, there are people because of failure, or cowardly to give up!In this world, the only thing that can prevent you from fulfilling your dream is yourself.That is what parents should tell their children.
2. Ability to think independently
Children should not only focus on academic achievement but also to cultivate the ability to think independently, because this is a tool in their maturity process.
Ma Phi's father said:"Teaching children is not only educating knowledge but also cultivating their thoughts."Ma Phi improved the test score a lot after watching the space program, which is because his father taught his children the ability to think and analyze independently.
When Ma Phi was surrounded by the flood and the life of thousands of pounds hanging the hair, he thought of removing the door and using the curtain to tie a raft, whistling and turning on the flashlight, rowing to the embankment and crying outSave, finally helped successfully.This is the solution that a middle school student can think of, but the prerequisite is that he must have a habit of thinking independently and brave to face life.
Adults should let children understand from an early age that children as well as parents, exist as an independent person!Regardless of words, actions or choices, you should be responsible for yourself!
3. Learn how to face failure
What will happen if we only focus on children's learning results?
The son of the first dean in the film is a student who achieved high results with excellent score, but because he reached 58 points in a test and no one instructed and sympathized, he could not face it, finally chose the wayextreme.
Ma Phi, not only brave and tenacious trying to escape in the flood but also became a astronaut when growing up.Even in the emergency moment of the crisis in space, based on the belief that is honed from a young age, Ma Phi can still transform dangerously.
Facing the same failure, but the results of Ma Phi and the boy are very different, this shows that the ability to face the ability to face the failure is becoming increasingly important.In the process of adulthood of children, the most important responsibility of parents is not to set goals for children, but to teach children how to persevere towards goals and never be afraid of failure!
The book "Adversive Business" (business adventures) say that the poor point of a child is a kind of failure, when growing up, they will encounter many different failures when going to college, looking for jobs, married, etc.The ability to resist failure must be cultivated from an early age.
Instead of just focusing on good points in the exam, parents should pay more attention to improving the three abilities in their children, because this is the courage and luggage for your child to achieve achievements.Good, facing life alone in the future.
Education is not filled but a group of flames.And how to light this fire?InThe path of few people go, author Parker has summarized in a unique way:"Smart parents are willing to take the time to understand their children, prescribe suitable drugs to educate their children, flexibly adjust the development direction of children, carefully observe the words and deeds of the children,Listen to the thoughts of children ".
As well as a sentence in the movie "Galaxy supplementary class":How do our children in the end need education?The answer is: Children need to be fostered independent, brave to face this world, doing the education they like.There are many things in this world that we cannot control, but what we can control is ourselves.